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E Out of Ego Daily Insight – Back to School Wisdom

August 17th, 2009

Hi everyone,

Some people, mostly mothers and fathers are really happy about school starting again – for the kids.  But what about the fact that we are all back to school every morning.  Is there a day you can remember that you have not had to learn something new?  I can tell you that since writing this book, and getting it published and now marketing it, I have been learning more than the kids in school for sure!  Learning blogging, social networking, new business contact managers – you name it.  The kids want to finish school and get out, we want to learn faster what they already know! So, it really helps to keep our ego out of the way, so we can learn fast, so as the world changes we are in the flow! No roadblocks here!.

E Out of Ego Daily Insight – Getting over Ego

August 10th, 2009

Getting over Ego is of course easier said than done.  Our clue for the day is:  look for what is similar in two apparently opposing “You should have…”  and “Well, you could have…”. Once you find what is similar, the differences don’t look so huge, and the egos so much to “gain.”   For example:  Interruptions. What is similar:  getting a job done.  Try using the preference technique:  “I would prefer that you would bring in all my messages for each hour at one time, please.”  “Ok, now I understand how to be effective, thank you.”

Take the E Out of Ego and GO! is available at Agape International Spiritual Center bookstore in Culver City, CA (Los Angeles metro)

August 4th, 2009

If you remember the movie and book “The Secret” about the law of attraction…check this out!  You shoulda been there!

Dr Michael Beckwith who appeared on the Secret is the minister at Agape International Spiritual Center in Culver City, CA.  We took our book to their bookstore for clearance to be sold there and attended the third service last Sunday.


As the final song, our mouths fell open as the choir sang the Gibran quote “On Children” which is the dedication in the front of our book, because Jerry’s mother wrote it in his baby book.  With 1000+ people, we finally got to talk to Rickie Byers Beckwith, the music director and shared our excitement, as she noted that this was the first and only time the choir had ever sung that song.

But, here comes more!  We did not try to talk to Rev Michael.  After three services, and so many people, even though we were here from Arizona, that was a slim chance.  We did however meet some inspiring people and went to lunch with 6 of them, not far from Agape.  Well, we never looked at our watches, and our lunch which started about 1pm was just ending at 4pm.  As we hugged our new friends goodbye (each with book in hand), one of them said, “There comes Rev Michael.  He just drove up, do you want to go give him a book?”  So there came our opportunity, he drove right to us, accepted our book which we signed for him and he thanked us for coming to Agape!  Was that timely or what? (And by the way, it got accepted in the bookstore also, last night!)  We love following intentions and getting help from the universe!

E Out of Ego Daily Insight – Sensitivity

August 3rd, 2009

We have found that sensitivity has more to do with  how we act and respond to another person’s ego than we might think.

For instance, if someone challenges you, you may automatically respond to meet the challenge.  If someone comes on with a puffed up Ego, we may tend to puff up and tell our story.  With sensitivity, we can tune into the intent BEHIND a comment and DECIDE  our response.  For instance if the comment seems to be self-serving, we can choose to give the preson some supportive credit instead of trumping up a comment about ourselves.  Sensitivity tends to inspire maturity.  What do you think?

E Out of Ego Daily Insight – Hire and Fire

August 1st, 2009

If nothing is working – fire your scriptwriter!  In other words, make a change in your intention.

E Out of Ego Daily Insight – Awareness

July 31st, 2009

It’s our awareness that other people’s points of view are also valuable which keeps us from the an ego trip that our way is the only (or at least best) way.  What tricks have you found to keep your ego out of your own way?

E Out of Ego Daily Insight – Ego balance

July 28th, 2009

Avoid having your ego so close to your position that when your position falls, your ego goes with it.
Colin Powell

E Out of Ego Daily Insight – Ego-less, the balanced Ego

July 26th, 2009

Take the balanced Ego quiz:  1) Do you listen as much in a conversation as you share?   2)  Can you keep your emotions out of the conversation and truly listen to yourself and others?  3)  Do you arrange for win-win situations in your interactions?  If you can answer yes to all of these questions, you are in the Ego-less, the more balanced Ego pattern.

E Out of Ego Daily Insight – Is one Ego smart?

July 24th, 2009

None of us is as smart as all of us.

Kenneth Blanchard, author of One Minute Manager

E Out of EGO Daily Insight

July 22nd, 2009

We recently visited a High School and saw a valuable sign just at the entrance to the soccer field.  It read:  “Leave your Ego here.”  Sportsmanship and leadership works much better without the Ego muscling around.

E Out of EGO Daily Insight – There is nothing stopping me!

July 20th, 2009

Wow!  Every day when we check our path for emotional roadblocks, we keep the way clear for success.

Go Power Point of the Week

July 19th, 2009

go-power-point1Go Power Point 8:

Don’t buck the tide; swallow your pride and jump in the water, catch the wave and ride it toward your goals.

Take the E out of Ego and GO!  by Jerry and Donna Govan

Removing Roadblocks to Success with powerful secrets to prosperity, relationships, healing  and FUN!

E Out of EGO Daily Insight – Power to Change

July 19th, 2009

The power to change comes quickly in a tough spot.  Why not look for a change to improve in ourselves every day and do it before we are forced?  It’s so much easier and requires about 90% less pain and pressure!

E Out of EGO Daily Insight – Change

July 17th, 2009

A woman’s mind is cleaner than a man’s:  She changes it more often.

Oliver Herford

E Out of Ego Daily Insight – The Power of the Present Moment

July 14th, 2009

“The present moment is always small…but concealed within it lies the greatest power. Like the atom it…contains enormous power.  Only when you align yourself with the present moment do you have access to that power.”  -Eckert Tolle, “A New Earth.”